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The meaning and origin of interesting English phrases

taking someone for a ride

Meaning

To deceive, exploit, or mislead someone, often for personal gain or malicious intent.

Origin

Picture the shadowy streets of early 20th-century America, where organized crime held sway. When mobsters wanted to deal with an enemy or an informant, they’d send a car. 'Get in, we're going for a ride,' they’d say, a phrase that would send shivers down anyone's spine. This wasn't a scenic tour; the unlucky individual would be driven to a remote location, often to be murdered or severely punished, never to be seen again. The seemingly innocent invitation became a terrifying euphemism for being lured into a fatal trap. Over time, the literal violence softened, but the chilling sense of being exploited or duped, of being led blindly towards someone else's nefarious intent, cemented the phrase in our language as a punchy shorthand for ultimate betrayal.

Examples

  • The unscrupulous developer was definitely taking the elderly couple for a ride, promising them luxuries he never intended to deliver.
  • When she found out her agent had been secretly pocketing extra fees, she realized he had been taking her for a ride for years.
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