Deal someone in
Meaning
To include someone in a game, activity, or discussion, often by giving them a share or opportunity to participate.
Origin
The phrase 'deal someone in' originates directly from the card tables of the 19th and 20th centuries, most prominently in poker. When players gathered for a game, the dealer would distribute cards to all active participants. If a new player joined mid-game or someone who had previously opted out wanted to rejoin, the dealer would literally 'deal them in,' giving them their hand and a chance to play. This precise action of distributing cards and integrating a new player into the game soon became a vibrant metaphor for inviting someone to participate in any discussion, activity, or opportunity, ensuring everyone has a hand to play.
Examples
- We were about to start the poker game when John arrived, so we decided to deal him in.
- The team was brainstorming new marketing ideas, and they made sure to deal in the new intern for fresh perspectives.